We all are not the same people we once were. As we grow older, we get mature, we realise this world is not as beautiful as it seems from the outside. The most common reason why peoplr change is pain. Pain is in betrayal. Pain is in losing something or someone who meant the world to you. Pain is everywhere and when something stings us, when we get hurt, we no longer have the strength to face the world or to accept the fact that there’s an ugly side to everything. There’s an ugly side to this world. When the heart is crushed into tiny pieces for example;separation from spouse, you cant be the same person you were earlier, you have to change, all the emotions bottled up inside you push you to the point where you completely lose it. You have no other option but to move on, wear a smile and pretend infront of the world you are strong. You are on your feet. From the feeling of immense euphoria to a feeling of suffocation, that is what changes you.